How many sexual partners have you had?

How many people have you had sex with?

I don't mean foreplay, I mean literal sex.

I believe my number is around 15 women. I stopped counting last year.

 

8 or 9. But I got married 32 years ago.

 

I've had zero and I'm in my mid-20s.

 

nuthin wrong with that.

i lost my virginity at age 18.

didnt start to actually have meaningful, loving sex till I was 23.

 

Including hookers?

 

You're playing Russian roulette.

One--my spouse. We're both straight edge...and the older I get, the happier I am about that.

No addictions; no viruses... The more I realize how much stuff can be caught these days .... Yerk. Not worth it.

 

Good idea. Pick one, make her the love of the rest of your life.

 

One woman, five or six men. I had been faithful the last one for the last 8 years, but now I am celibate.

 

I think it's 36 women. Last year I tried to remember all of their names, and could remember only 31, but it's probably 36. It mostly happened in binges between long term relationships, 6 months to a year at a time a few times. And I admit their attractiveness was highly variable, everything between 5 and 10. Sex with a new 5 is still fun, actually how fun it is isn't all about how hot she is. But how hot she is matters for staying interested years in. Though I always eventually want variety, sadly. Yes my feelings about sex are similar to that Nickelback song called Sex. All of that said, I don't expect the number to grow unless my fiancee decides she's okay with an open relationship. Now that I have a child with her, I feel much less okay about moving on without a fight even if I do have second thoughts later on.

And no I never had any STDs - which is lucky though the kind of women I have been with are less likely to have them than average.

 

yes....

 

Congratulations! IMO it's not only addictions or viruses one may be exposed to with multiple sexual partners....but....Today....a lot of people have little or no understanding about the depth of affection, fulfillment and enhanced sexual experiences truly committed couples enjoy. I myself have been very lucky to have a committed marriage. A lot of people have a hard time giving themselves to a loving partner because it makes one vulnerable and open to being hurt. Multiple partners is no answer to this dilemma. Finding someone willing to share a relationship takes work. Men especially are vulnerable because they have absolutely no rights in sexual relationships. Apparently you chose your spouse well.

 

Between 100 and 125. Some memories are blurry due to drugs or alcohol.

 

I think actually committing to your partner and remembering a sexual experience is much better. I hope you found someone special.

 

Around 27 prostitutes, I have two regular ones now who let me pay after the sex so am on good terms with them. But I don't always want sex sometimes I just want to cuddle and other times do some fetish play not involving sex.

 

Totally agree with this. My wife and I have had a wonderful relationship, and I can't imagine having "casual" sex. That just seems kind of degrading to both people involved.

 

takes some people longer to find that "one" person then others, the sooner you find then the lower your numbers will be

 

Idk, around a half dozen.

 

not enough. by now, women should know, practice makes perfect.

 

Wow!!! How much does it cost?

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Yep...The sooner one matures I guess.

 

Remembering for sure - better than porn. But I dunno if commitment ever actually made the sex better. More like risk of stagnation. I feel happier in a committed relationship, but not because of the sex (though convenient access and comfort with them is a plus). I think sex is somewhat different of an experience for some of us than others. I may love my partner, but the phrase "making love" turns me off.

I don't think it's primarily maturity. It will depend on what you need in a partner and what you want sexually. A picky or unusual person may take more time to find the right person, and may not wish to be celibate in the meantime.

And here again with different people wanting different things. I don't think I would get much out of being with a prostitute, but I don't think it's a bad thing for others to do so if it makes them happy.

Well you could still just do the same person more often and be open to trying new things. I suppose there are new tricks to be learned from new people, but only sometimes and there are alternative ways of getting better than doing lots of people.

 

'Making love' can mean a variety to things. A committed and willing partner will seek to satisfy you and you will get a higher satisfaction by satisfying them. This, however, is risky if you don't really first get to know the person you are going to have sex with. Like I said, men should be especially careful because they have 0 rights in sexual encounters with females.

IMO time is better spent finding the one who accepts 'picky or unusual' behavior. That, however takes (as you said) time. However, I understand the urge to have any kind of sex...It's just a waste of time that's all.

I agree, I don't judge what others do sexually...It's their own business.

Ya....But sooner or later those 'new things' become meaningless. It is only when a deep, loving, committed relationship is agreed upon and worked on between two people that true sexual satisfaction is experienced. Otherwise you might as well masturbate.

 

about 200

 

I prefer to not play silly chic trics for sex. I really do prefer to spend quality time with my girlfriends, and make appointments. I also like to practice full body massage, one to three hours at a time. Most local chics are just, "big chickens".

 

has nothign to do with it, some people spend a life time looking for their soul mates, some just pick someone quick so they can call themselves mature I suppose, but that is also why some people like Trump have had multiple divorces

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I've been denied twice...story of my life....