11 year old girl in AZ admits to being the girlfriend of a 20 year old man

You may not have heard this story of a very young girl
I knew a woman in my own age range who would invite me to her home.

She had a young daughter.. Mom was a bartender who did not mind sleeping around. I never took that path.

Daughter has a pal, a super beautiful girl made up to look over 18. Make up can transform a lot of them

Anyway, this girl that I believe was around 13-14 was acting like she wanted some male action.

I learned her age and of course never made any move. A man that farts around with children deserves jail time.

So just because she appears to be 18 or older does not mean she is.

2nd story. I was paying for a monthly answering service. An operator and I chatted nicely of course as she gave me messages. Over a period of time we met and dated. I was around 40. Well she was smoking hot. She could have been a movie star. Before I dated her, I went to the answering service to see who I talked to. She was busy so she did not see me. I departed. She was smoking hot as I said above. Keep that in mind. She also appeared to be possibly in her Mid twenties or up to maybe 28. It was a miracle of make up.

We ended up having an affair. After taking her to dinner where we both drank alcohol beverages, where nobody at the restaurant asked for her ID she confessed to me she was not quite 21. Well i was taken aback. We later at a different restaurant where she told me she wanted to have my baby she confessed then. At that point there was no sex. Sex came that evening I think. She confessed to me she was not quite 20. At least she was legal. She was an only child of professional parents. She said her parents approved of me. I guess based on her recommendations since I had not met her parents but did talk to the mom on occasion.

We ended up on a weekend trip at Lake Tahoe. She was smoking hot. I think you get it. The final thing she confessed was she was not quite 19. At that point i said, how much younger will you get. We stopped dating soon after her confession.

 

Well you are asking me about strangers. I wish for her sake she avoided sex.; For her sake getting pregnant was very bad. He seems aimed for jail so why worry about him.

It is her life. I hope her parents have a very good plan and if she had the kid, they will be involved for a very long time.

i have not seen her. She may be 5-10 and stout enough to bear a child. The authorities will see her and they may have an opinion. I try not to have opinions about strangers.

 

Probably not as bad as we think. Girls from that part of the world often tend to have bigger hips and can push babies out easier.

Not saying 11 is a good age for a girl from any culture to have a baby, but it might be more the equivalent of a 15 year old girl having a vaginal delivery.

Most Chinese girls are biologically incapable of having a baby at 11, but if they did I am pretty sure it would kill them.

 

Yet it happened in rural America not the Middle East

 

Excellent points. She could be over 6 feet tall and ample hips. Sure she can.

The following girl is 13 yrs of age and 6 feet tall.


Is this Britain’s tallest schoolgirl? Meet the aspiring beauty queen who is SIX FOOT TALL aged just 13.

Despite her size, Harriotte Lane, from Newcastle, was teased and suffered vicious name-calling on a regular basis in primary school because she was always much taller than her fellow pupils.

The schoolgirl had reached the lofty height of six foot by the time she hit her teens and is almost a FOOT taller than the average height of other girls her age.

 

I posted moments ago a 13 year old girl who is 6 ft tall. She may have passed 5 feet by age 11.

 

She looks like a 15 or 16 year old. Maybe even 17.

 

shoudl be her choice to have the rapists baby of not

 

I try not to have opinions about strangers.

 

No excuse

And you are using a COMEDY ROUTINE as justifaction

 

me too, which means it shoudl be her choice, not yours, mine or the governments

one can't say she is old enough to have a child, but not old enough to decide not to have one

 

I did not make her choice.

I agree entirely that the Government needs to mind their own business and stay out of examining our incomes. It is clearly not the business of Government.

 

at her age not sure she has a income and the potential daddy sure wont

 

WTF???

Do you HONESTLY believe that THAT is the ONLY risk?

Please please please do some research for once!

A good easy to read description of the changes happening in puberty

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2005/mar/03/1

The BEST description is that the teen and the baby compete for the nutrients ingested with the teen winning mostly which is why the babies are commonly underweight, and with that comes a higher risk of infant mortality.

https://academic.oup.com/jn/article/133/5/1732S/4558575

The biggest risk is the increased chance of developing eclampsia/HELLP syndrome.

https://bmcpregnancychildbirth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2393-9-8
https://www.preeclampsia.org/savinggrace-travel/53-health-information/57-hellp-syndrome

 

Look, I'm not saying it's not more risky for a younger girl to have a baby, but it's not entirely unnatural either.
Probably 18 is the minimum best biological age to have a baby, that is what mother nature intended.

 

IT WAS NOT HER CHOICE

Have you NEVER heard of “child grooming”?

https://www.theage.com.au/national/...o-watch-out-for-grooming-20161115-gsq0a2.html

We actually have laws in place because this has become a bigger abpnd bigger issue. The parents flagged this was happening not once but three times!

 

Yes there are places in the world where young pubescent girls are forced to marry (America being one of them) but the maternal mortality rate in most of those countries is horrific

 

And earlier in the thread you were talking about “certain cultures”

 

I don't believe young girls were ever forced to marry in America. They might have been under a little bit of pressure from their parents, if they were pregnant, but I do not believe they were ever forced to marry.
(outside of some insane cults, and possibly certain immigrant groups, but we are not talking about that here)

 

Since you seem to be the expert, go for it. Educate us all.

 

America used to have a different culture 60 to 125 years ago.

But still, even considering that, that culture was nothing like it is in Guatemala, or was in many African American communities in the 80s.

That's a big problem, but let's be fair, it isn't always the case.​

 

I have talked to girls from India that said their parents will choose who marries her. I asked if she was pleased and she said she was. Said she trusts her parents to find the best man for her. I did not want to pry further.

 

My brother's Asian (Vietnamese I think) girlfriend's parents insisted that they meet with any boy she planned to date, even casual dates.
They treat dating like a potential marriage.

We're talking an innocent relationship between two 15 year olds that didn't involve sex.

He had to meet them before he could go to the movies with her.
They didn't talk about anything involving sex or any of that, they just wanted to meet him to see if they approved. I think he was asked what his school grades were and what were his future career plans.

 

I have already addressed the “Romeo and Juliet” clauses

You seem to be missing the essential point. A gap in age

 

I do not know those people. I did not even tell my two daughters who they should marry. Daughter 1 married a cop. Things worked out well for them since their oldest son graduates in June with a first year income topping 210,000. My daughter homeschooled her two sons.

Daughter 2 got a divorce she was not wanting or planning for. She learned what her husband did with other women.
She has a delightful son who is a lot of fun. Him in the foreground.The kids are on a beach at Kawai.