just need to work hard and it all falls into place..if you job doesnt pay well find a different field..i never got a dime from anyone and i am very well off..all from hard work..and never been in trouble with the law either.. - - - Updated - - - just need to work hard and it all falls into place..if you job doesnt pay well find a different field..i never got a dime from anyone and i am very well off..all from hard work..and never been in trouble with the law either..
First of all, you have to let go of your attachment to your wife. It sounds to me that you are still very resentful over the whole divorce, this is very common. That's probably where you should start. I am not necessarily saying you should just forget about the money though. You might have to make some sort of legal claim on it within the next few years before it expires, but I think now is obviously not the time to press your wife to pay you. Perhaps you could wait around 10 years, and see if you can get the money after that. But in the mean time, best not to fixate on it.
