What do women want?

If it is a man a woman wants, she wants someone who will listen to her, not just act like but actually listen. She wants a man that is handy with his hands, able to fix things, and build things. She wants a man that is strong, both physically and mentally. She wants a man that is not short tempered, rather very patient. She wants a man that loves kids and is great with them. She doesn't want a man that is selfish, rather sharing, what's mine is yours, what's yours is mine. She wants a man that is willing to do things, not just sit around letting time go. And do new things, unwilling to do the same thing over and over. She wants a man that everyone can get along with, and is admired by others. She wants a man willing to compromise and sacrifice for the greater good, whatever the case may be. She wants a man with courage, braveness, determination, leadership, and confidence. She wants a man that is trustworthy, willing to tell her everything, and upon her telling him everything, she wants him to listen with understanding. No lies, woman hate even the little lies, it tells them he is willing to lie to her. Thus not trustworthy. She wants a man with passionate emotions. She wants a man that can have more fun with her, than his friends, and it shows. Thus her best friend. She wants a man who is very romantic. She wants a man capable and willing to protect her, at all costs. But above all, she wants a man that she can see (witness), truly loves her. I believe having all those traits will allow her to see she is truly loved.

For all you haters out there, this is of my opinion and not necessarily true with all women. And may not be true for any woman.

 

Glad you put in the disclaimer especially since your description is of what one woman wants........


......what woman told you all this?

 

I think that's a good summary of what a woman would look for in a man if that is what she is looking for. The thing is, a lot of women are looking at their careers, some women are single parents, so their children would be their main concern too, among a lot of other things that women may be focused on at a particular point in their lives.

 

That's completely understandable, and what I said was merely of opinion. Family and friends is very important, most people don't realize there are so many out there without family to turn to for help, or even when just down. I will admit I have been blessed with family, so far at the age of 36 I have lost a grandmother and great grandmother both with a long life. My daughter will be 20 in August, and so far she seems to have her head on better than I. And yes, I was only 16 when she was born, thought you might ask. Again very blessed.

 

I had a child when I was 16 as well, so I know how difficult it is. Perhaps that is another reason why some women don't want to be married. Tied down with child from an early age and now getting a taste of freedom after all those years. Maybe?

 

Yeah, the OP is kind of silly, it's impossible to describe "what women want" they all have their own unique situations in life. Maybe I should have never replied to the OP. However it's hard to argue against my reply, I think for the most part women will agree with most of it.

 

Of course you should reply! That is what a message board is all about. I'm not offended by your opinions, as long as you do realize that everyone is different. Women are just as much individuals as men.

 

Completely in agreeance. I will admit I could of been a better father, and it kills me to know that. Raising a child as a child was no easy task. At least she is already 4 years older than we was, and still no children. We must of done something right in that aspect. Her mother and I did not get along so great through the duration, married and divorced by the age of 18. However, I will never take the fact away that she is the best mother in the world. Her sacrifices was greater than mine. Not seeing at the time, and now, it is unprecedented knowing what she did. Tears to the eyes. Hateful words towards one another still to this day, but never will I deny her as a great mother. Rather brag about her.

 

Interestingly....

how a man replies to this question....says more about HIM than about women.

 

Agree!




The arrogance of MEN stating they know what women want is mind boggling stupid...( and some insisting it's a MAN they want most of all is Really Stupid)

 

It's like the number of Rightwing men who-

constantly complain about "feminists"

or the "pro-life" men who come up with new and interesting ways to create a Taliban state to control women.

or the ones who constantly bring up "gays behaving badly" and have to post how "manly" they are (or how "wimpy liberals are.")


Doesn't really say much about women, gays, or even liberals....but it says a LOT about the Rightwing men who post such comments...

and they don't even see it.

 

Well, message boards are all about posting your opinions on topics. I suppose that IS what some women are looking for. Not all of them but some, but I agree that for a lot of us there are more important things in life than snagging a man. Lol.

 

Is that why you entered into the OP? Hypocritical indeed. I'm sorry you do not know what woman want. I do not know everything they want, but most certainly know a few. I feel sorry for you, not knowing any.

 

Pouting? Looks like it........

An intelligent person doesn't need to know a million women or one woman to know women are individuals.....


Here's how it works: If you want to know what A woman wants, you ask her.....making up a bunch of BS of what you think all women want IS arrogance to the extreme...

 

Your lack of experience with woman is your fault. Perhaps it's that attitude of yours, constantly putting out negative comments. Nothing ever good to say, your just an all around negative person, at least on this forum anyways.

Nobody told me what to say, it is from experience. The fact that you think a woman told me this, tells me something.

- - - Updated - - -

That's funny, give me one woman and one day, she will have a day to remember.

 

More pouting.

Tell me (try using logic) how treating women as individuals with individual likes and wants equates to lack of experience with women ?

The opposite is true, stating that all women want the same thing shows a complete and total lack knowledge about women( must not know many).


"""An intelligent person doesn't need to know a million women or one woman to know women are individuals.....


Here's how it works: If you want to know what A woman wants, you ask her.....making up a bunch of BS of what you think all women want IS arrogance to the extreme..."""""


And you equate that with sex???

 

where o' where have all the nice women gone, who just want a full body massage with happy ending?

 

Great, if I need any advice when it comes to women, I will seek your wisdom. And by the way, women were created from man, and for man (to complete man). I know what kind of disturbances that will bring, but it is the word of God. Take it up with Him.

Here's how it works, a woman is much more happier when a man does not have to ask what she wants. A good man pays attention and finds out what she wants, through everyday experience. Through her personality and who she is. Women like to hint at what they want, to see if your really paying attention. At least so far for me, that's how it works. If you want to constantly ask what she wants you go right ahead, especially if that's how the woman/women your referring to feels about it. By all means keep her happy.

It is only obvious all women are different, and yet alike. To put that in better words, I will leave to you. Seems how you will take it as you want anyways. Men are the same way, each individually unique, and yet alike.

If the OP was not meant for a relationship type question, then the answer is easy. Money and lots of it, I mean who (male or female) does not want lots of money? Kind of silly OP if not meant for a relationship type answer.

 

Maybe they just want to have FWB.

 

Sorry don't know what FWB is?

 

It means Friends With Benefits. I'm sure that some women want that too. I'll bet some women just want a companion too.

Sure, a guy with money is nice, but you actually have to LIKE the person as well (unless you're a prostitute or something). I don't think there are a whole lot of women who could just use a guy PURELY for the money. There has to be something else as well.

 

Money should not have anything to do with a relationship.

I have money and I am very wealthy but the last thing I ever would talk about is having money on a date.

If you say this to your date then you might never know if she likes you for being YOU...or likes you because your wealthy.

AA

- - - Updated - - -

As I said....it's nothing I didn't know.

I vote for who I think will be the best President...not along Party lines.

AA