What do women want?

i can be honest about my true intentions, by simply being willing to use capital under our form of capitalism.

does that imply capital morals for a price are truer than social morals for free?

 

I suppose if you're a hammer everything looks like a nail.

 

so, if i am stereotypically honest for free, does that imply women are simply liars until i establish a firm price?

 

I think you are mistaking all women for prostitutes. A relationship is give and take. Money alone will not get you a woman who cares about you. You have to have something else to offer.

 

A woman needs to know when you're with her it's all about JUST her with no divided attention, but don't wear out your welcome. As long as you never treat them badly you can always go back and there's a lot of truth in absence makes the heart grow fonder and stuff. A little mystery can go a long way in a relationship.

 

I think you are special pleading. A relationship is a relationship. An employment relationship is more clearly defined.

What if women simply refuse to care for free under any form of capitalism, especially when there are so many, more active, participants?

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my problem is, i believe in quality. it may require, gangs of chics, to get me into it, now.

 

Some guy's here have some serious hate issues as far as women.

I could never hate women or even a woman.

And a MAN.....should be able to handle anything thrown at him thus excuses like...."Oh!! She left me for another guy!!"....or....."The B!T@H took everything!!"...just don't cut it as far as I am concerned.

If you are a man....ACT LIKE ONE!!

There is very little that is more sexy to a woman then watching her man...be a MAN!!

AA

 

Dude, it's your thread and stuff but why ask what women want when you ARE what you think women want? Money, if you have it, obviously doesn't work, so just blow smoke up our asses and deal with your "can't figure out what women want" problem.

 

It just happened to go that way when another member talked about a guy having money and I replied that money should not matter as far as love.

AA

 

Look, I'm wrong and should never have made that last post.

 

No big deal.

AA

 

I had a close friend who died recently who was a very special person but really bad with women.
It's not like he was rolling in money but he had access to a fortune.
He had a lot of women he treated like Royalty and they all pretty much (*)(*)(*)(*) on him.
He was a better man than me and it just isn't fair that women can't see it.

 

What I have seen as far as from my experiences is that a woman will treat a guy badly if the guy allows it.

Now obviously there are some people both men and women who are just not very nice people but a guy...and a girl as well has to nip in the bud bad treatment from their lover.

You just have to walk away sometimes and believe me.....people who say such bad treatment came as a surprise....BULL!!

They KNEW their lover was a freakin' pain in the ass but they still stuck with them!!

I learned this hard lesson myself a long time ago and now I ALWAYS trust my instincts because I...and everyone else....KNOWS when something is wrong in a relationship.

You feel it far before anything happens and you KNOW that something is off.

So you just can't fool yourself and think....Oh...they will change.

No...no they won't.

There really are some wonderful people out there and very good women and men available but a person cannot think they will just by chance come to them.

You have to LOOK....you have to take chances.

Sure your going to fall flat on your face 9 out of 10 times BUT.....that one time....that one person....once you find them....makes everything worthwhile.

AA

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What I have seen as far as from my experiences is that a woman will treat a guy badly if the guy allows it.

Now obviously there are some people both men and women who are just not very nice people but a guy...and a girl as well has to nip in the bud bad treatment from their lover.

You just have to walk away sometimes and believe me.....people who say such bad treatment came as a surprise....BULL!!

They KNEW their lover was a freakin' pain in the ass but they still stuck with them!!

I learned this hard lesson myself a long time ago and now I ALWAYS trust my instincts because I...and everyone else....KNOWS when something is wrong in a relationship.

You feel it far before anything happens and you KNOW that something is off.

So you just can't fool yourself and think....Oh...they will change.

No...no they won't.

There really are some wonderful people out there and very good women and men available but a person cannot think they will just by chance come to them.

You have to LOOK....you have to take chances.

Sure your going to fall flat on your face 9 out of 10 times BUT.....that one time....that one person....once you find them....makes everything worthwhile.

AA

 

Blaming all women for the fact that he picked badly or perhaps only appealed to loser women is pretty sad. Dude obviously needs intervention. Or perhaps he has an inner need to be abused.

 

" What I have seen as far as from my experiences is that a woman will treat a guy badly if the guy allows it. "

That is truly pathetic!

 

You know there are a LOT of both men and women who have serious self esteem issues and they find themselves in a abusive relationship but as they feel no one else would want them they stay in that relationship even though they are being abused.

AA

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Pathetic that the guy allows it or pathetic I posted it?

AA

 

I don't blame all women, in fact I don't blame any women. Girls pretty much don't know what they want, that's why they end up with the likes of me over and over while the good guys try to treat them like ladies.
I don't like myself for being this way and envy guys like my friend Dan who deserved a good woman more than I ever did.

 

Pathetic if you actually believe it because the way it reads is that any woman will treat a guy badly unless the man takes charge and puts her under control. Now if you were actually attempting to say is that if a woman treats a man badly it is his fault if he allows it to continue that is a different statement.

 

That's not what I said.

I will clarify this.

There are both men and women who have a tendency to treat their love like crap and they do so for a number of reasons and it is usually because of some emotional baggage.

However when such a person KNOWS they cannot get away with treating their lover like crap they don't tend to do so.

If a person is willing to walk away from an abusive relationship then the abuser almost always get's the hint and either reforms of finds themselves alone.

But if that abusive individual see's they can get away with the abuse....they will continue to do so.

AA

 

What she wants

So many ponder what they want
But never do they see
It’s there, it’s clear, blaring, blatant
Yet it escapes with glee

She twirls and dance as to convey
Hoping to reveal
But still, what? It is they say
Do women want, for real

Exasperated and amused, it is with a sigh
Why to stay, should she depart ?
For twirl and try she can never deny
As to what is in her heart

- me

 

Love, respect, a funny friend
A place to lay her heart
Security in how she lives
The chance to ply her art
These are just the basic things
Every goddess needs
And if you worship properly
Perhaps she'll hear your pleas
Unfortunately men can rarely see
The forest for the trees

 

why don't more women want to befriend us, merely to convince us to let women practice, manual penis enhancement. you can always claim; nice girlfriends do.

 

What he want's for her.

Her presence dances in his dreams like a moth around a flame.
And his need for all that what she is makes his body shake as if in pain.
He would rather die a thousand deaths before his fire consumed her soul.
Because protecting her from any harm is his job no matter upon him it's toll.

His happiness hinges on keeping her from any harm.
As harm can come in many forms including his own charms.
How could he continue on with such knowledge that he fears.
If his effort to provide her happiness could instead bring her tears.

So he chooses not to pursue the loveliest of all things in his life.
As to protect her no matter what the cost and hope that she will arrive.
To that place that all of us so hope to see that is called happiness.
As his love is unconditional falling upon his sword by her request.

And in so doing it is not failure or regret that he feels at this final call..
But rather he smiles and is so thankful she cared for him at all.
As more so than anything of what his heart desires.
Is for her to be safe and happy thus he helps her avoid his inner fire.

And what he does is what he is and in his mind it's clear.
Something so beautiful and precious as she cannot be allowed to fear.
He takes solace in knowing he will always keep her close.
In his heart where this all first did start a love very few will ever know.

Nothing worthwhile is ever easy even when two are matched so well.
So he does what is right for her no matter the pain that he has felt.
But hope springs eternal in the minds of those that love.
And he will keep open all the doors should she return his lovely...perfect...beyond words...free flying little dove.

Me.

 

I couldn't resist....
I had to share this over to "Ruby."


http://www.politicalforum.com/showthread.php?t=444300&page=2&p=1066343409#post1066343409

 

if Only, there nice girls who are willing to be nice friends, to be found in modern times.