What Don't You Like About The Gay Community?

Let's clarify one important detail that drives some straight men nuts.
I assume the man in that avatar would be lusted after by most gay men and most straight women. Is it safe to assume then that a man few women desire (on sight alone) would also be undesirable to most gays and therefore can live with no apprehension on the matter?

 

Everyone has different tastes or ideas of what they may find as attractive. Several of my girlfriends show me pictures of guys they go out on dates with. They will go completely crazy about how the guy is hot, good looking, etc. I look at the pictures and I state I do not find the same assessment to be true. Just like you and I could look at a woman and you may find her to be positively beautiful and I may find her to be unattractive for one reason or another. Attractiveness is subjective and individual. You should know this.

 

I lust after about 60% of the women I see instantly. The thought that 60% of gay men might be lusting after me makes me and many others uncomfortable.
You see the problem with letting them in the military and soldiers could be absolutely certain men were lusting after him in a group shower.

 

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I lust after (certain) females too.

 

what is the percentage of women that you see that is over 65?

Seriously. 1. gay men really just want to get clean and get out and even supposing there is some lust going on, People of both genders, survive being 'lusted after' constantly. I don't really think the unclothed state is that big a deal. You know that the gay man is far more afraid of the platoon of straights doing a gay bash on him if he steps over some imaginary line, than you need ever worry about with the gay dude in the shower seeing something he rather likes in a shower. Gay guys have been showering next to you all the time, you just did not know or care. Just keep not caring when you know. Its working and our military boys are mature enough to work it out.

 

Wow, just wow is all I can say. I have nothing on this.

So what? If you are comfortable with your sexuality, you will mostly ignore them. You are pretty much stating that gay men have no self control and that straight men are pansies and can not handle a gay guy that hits on him or comes on to him. I can assure you, most straight men can handle themselves perfectly fine and they know how to handle themselves.

 

If you mean what percentage of women over 65 do I lust after, the answer is "lots." I can kiss women over 65 and get away with it and they're lips are soft and warm. Their cheeks are soft too unless they're coated in powder or so withered they feel like they're peeling off in my mouth.
So let me now return to the direction I was working towards previously.
I think a lot pf men pretend to be gay because they can touch many more women more intimately than a monogamous straight man ever can hope for.

 

Men that pretend to be gay are normally straight...... Seen this scenario too.... It may work for a short period of time, but they will eventually get found out and normally, from what I have seen, it involves a man removing a woman's hand from his face.

 

I hope you read my edited post, because there was more to it. As for this assertion, I suppose it could happen, but its probably not worth it considering if they go for any more their cover is blown and their reputation for any availables already is!

 

I wouldn't know. Is

Generally it's hard to point out. Among gay men it's 100% men, thus men that wouldn't attract women at all may attract certain men. So it's not exactly that cut and dry

 

There seems to be some disconnect between our reponses to each other. The replies don't match the questions, so I'll ask the simplest question.
How can a gay man choose to make a career designing clothing for women so they'll attract straight men, and in the process force himself to be surrounded by women at all times, plus about 4 weeks a year poking and prodding naked women with perfect bodies?

 

He's approaching the task with the same sexual interest as a dog groomer surrounding himself with poodles, schnauzers, and terriers. While he must really enjoy being around and spending time with animals to do it well, dog groomers are not fantasizing about bestiality as they clip and trim.


That gay man enjoys being around those women, and likes to talk to them but he loves those clothes he makes and it is at the drawing board and the computer screen he spends 90% of his time . He feels passionate about the creative process. A painter spends a lot of time around his canvas, but he is not sexually attracted to it. The canvas just happens to be where he puts his art.

 

I could not take a job around naked men,much less choose it for a lifetime.
Do you like or dislike seeing your less favored lust interests undressed?

 

When I see naked women, I don't feel much of anything.

 

I'm repulsed by the sight of naked men. On the other end I don't think I could take a job that forced me to be around women looking their best because I couldn't concentrate on my work. When I was 26 (winter) a young lady rebuked me for looking at her every time she walked by. She wore knee-length skirts every day with a 2-inch slit on the back, giving me about 8 seconds on each pass to examine a small section of her left thigh. I was fired before spring.

 

I always find it interesting when men say they are 'repulsed' by male anatomy. I wonder if that is social conditioning, cultural, and if it is a recent phenomena. Certainly men did not used to be 'repulsed' and in societies with a lot of open nudity, it is very unlikely the reaction. Men have no problem seeing nudity in paintings or sculpture. Skinny dipping was commonplace and often pool swimming was nude in many parts of the country in high schools. I think there is also a generational aspect, as men have become more and more reluctant to be nude or be around nude men in the last 30 years.