Why do men have reputation for being unkind and selfish?

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  1. Renee

    Renee Well-Known Member

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    I taught in one of the toughest schools and I never had to curse to get attention. I believe teaching is a talent . I lecture to new teachers and tell them if they can’t control a class after three years, to get leave the profession . I rarely had discipline problems and I had the toughest of the tough. Where are all these women getting beaten up by students? How many?
    Trickle down has proven to be a failure.....
    Tell you what privately?
    So...how’s the headache?
     
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  2. Renee

    Renee Well-Known Member

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    They have everything to do with what you said....how come you don’t answer?
     
  3. Renee

    Renee Well-Known Member

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    It’s always insecure men who make such stupid accusations. If a woman is strong, she must hate men,,,,it makes the insecure feel better, soooo manly.
     
  4. Max Rockatansky

    Max Rockatansky Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Says the woman who lies about others being Trump supporters when they don't agree with her.

    Renee, you are making the mistake of thinking you are strong when all you are is loud.
     
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  5. Chester_Murphy

    Chester_Murphy Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Were you in the military? lol
    Near home in schools.
    One just recently, but there have been others. They had something in the news about it.
    How you think you know me.
    Better. Thanks.
     
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  6. Renee

    Renee Well-Known Member

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    Oh I believe that a teacher was assaulted. I have seen that myself but you were saying that there were many like the one you were talking about.
    It’s interesting that you talk about the military. I work with new teachers all over the country and recently I did one in Virginia. There were former Marines there who thought teaching would be a simple job and they would tell me how they cant control the classes.
    As I said, I believe teaching is a talent and some people are good at it and some people or not. I would just give my teacher look and they would shut up. But that also came with love because I really lovedmy kids. When these tough kids like you...they’ll do anything for you...when the dont, watch out!
     
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  7. Renee

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    Sob, you hurt my feelings. I’m going to go on Twitter and insult you like trump (tongue in cheek)
     
  8. Max Rockatansky

    Max Rockatansky Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    1) You're not as good a teacher as you think. Sure, you may be good with 9 year olds or whatever age group you have the most experience, but you remind me of the kindergartner teacher who talks like a five year old at adult parties.

    2) I believe that's an honest, albeit laced with sarcasm, reaction. You don't like men confronting you. Even worse when they are right and you're wrong.

    3) Trump's a f**king moron mainly due to his "Tweets". You are free to follow in his footsteps.
     
  9. Renee

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    Why are you letting me get to you that you have to resort to schoolboy insults. Stop being so emotional
     
  10. Lil Mike

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    You saying they do have something to do with something I said doesn't make it true, but OK I'll bite. You're question was, "Then why is it different for a man being sexually harassed by a man than for a woman?"

    What are you talking about? Are you confusing sexual harassment with sexual assault, or are they the same thing to you?
     
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    There is a fine line.....how is either one different for a man or a woman? If a man tells you he would love to kiss you and maybe more...that is harassment. Is that ok with you?
     
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    That fine line....makes the distinction mush. Again.....(whew) WHAT did I say that would make you think that I think harassment is OK?
     
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    When you said that you don’t think a guy grabbing your balls against your will is sexual assault.
     
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    But I said that's assault. Well technically it's battery, which is a crime. It should be treated as such. I never said I was OK with it and I don't understand why you say that I did say I was OK with it. Could you explain that?
     
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    Then I misunderstood. I apologize
     
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    LIke Trump? :roflol::roflol::roflol: He insists no one has a right to criticize him or they're evil or fired Funny watching all the sexists in here pout... and ignore facts ...
     
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    When women have power, they abuse it as much as men -- perhaps in different but also very harmful ways. For instance most nonreciprocal relationship violence is female on male.

    What upsets me most is that some men consider themselves the morally inferior gender. That is what really can be called toxic masculinity.
     
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    If a man objects to male bashing, negative generalizations about men, discrimination about men, he must hate women.
     
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    It must be terrible for a man to be subjected to the things he has done to women for pretty much all of human history. It is rather sad that you seem to pine for the good ol' days in this regard and see men who do not as inferior or "Toxic"....Personally I like being nice.
     
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  20. CCitizen

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    No man today is responsible for what other men may have done in the past.

    Advocating and excusing injustice and stereotyping toward modern men is indeed toxic.
     
  21. CCitizen

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    I do advocate for Equality -- I have since 1996.

    Since 1776, All Humans are Created Equal.
     
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    Actually many men are responsible for perpetuating it....read the freakin' news.
     
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    Good for you.
     
  24. CCitizen

    CCitizen Well-Known Member

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    Some men are guilty of some offenses. Some women are guilty of things like child abuse.

    But most men are not guilty of anything and have no debt to anyone. Many publications claim that all men are complicit, and sadly too many men accept unearned guilt.
     
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    I think men are more willing to accept the differences between the sexes than women are. Women see the lack of attempt by men to understand them more fully as a lack of interest, while men simply see women as impossible (and thus futile) to understand, and prefer to direct their energy into less subjective dynamics of the relationship. Whats worse is that because men dont really see the point or a necessity (or even a possibility) in fully understanding women, they dont adequately appreciate womens attempts to fully understand them. This leaves the women in relationships feeling underappreciated and ignored, and the men totally confused as to why.
     
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