"Wife wasn't attracted to me after I came out as Trans"

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  1. Derideo_Te

    Derideo_Te Well-Known Member

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    That is NOT how being transgender works.
     
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    Derideo_Te Well-Known Member

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    Excellent post. :applause::applause:
     
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    MASKING that you are Transgender is COMMONPLACE.

    I did it MYSELF because I had no other options.

    Odds are NEITHER did she UNTIL recently.

    Being ACCEPTED as trans when there are Xtofascist TRANSPHOBIC bigots spreading LIES about transpeople on social media makes it way more difficult than it needs to be.

    What is CLEAR from the CONTENT of your posts is that you LACK even a VESTIGE of relevant Subject Matter Knowledge.

    There is a saying about it being better to keep your mouth closed when you know nothing about a subject rather than to open it and reveal your ignorance.

    Sound advice that is seldom heeded by those who lack relevant subject matter knowledge.
     
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    Derideo_Te Well-Known Member

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    Never heard of the concept of MASKING?
     
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    Derideo_Te Well-Known Member

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    ATTRACTION and GENDER are NOT the same thing, something you MIGHT know if you actually HAD any relevant subject matter knowledge.
     
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    Derideo_Te Well-Known Member

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    I had to HIDE it for 68 YEARS, so yes, it is TRUE for ALL of us who had to MASK who we were inside.
     
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    No offense intended but you OPINION is IRRELEVANT.

    Transitioning is an INDIVIDUAL matter, just like abortion, and is between the individual and their medical team.

    What YOU are MISSING is that trans people are ALREADY the gender they SHOULD be mentally, their body is subsequently REALIGNED to match their IMAGE of themselves. They were BORN the gender they want their bodies to MATCH.
     
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    Crime is on a spectrum too. But it doesn't make it right. In fact, the irony in prison, is that serial killers are like rock stars to other inmates.
     
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    FreshAir Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    are you a believer that God can do anything? it's all part of God's plan, he is testing you.....
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    Freakin' Richard Gere!!
     
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    yabberefugee Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    He didn't make 'em gay. They wanted it so He allows them to continue.
     
  12. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    No they haven't. it's called autogynephilia and it is pretty well understood.
     
  13. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    It is how being transgender can work.
    I've explained that there are different types of transgenders.
    Sorry if my explanation does not concord to "the theory".
     
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  14. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    By injecting male steroids and gaining huge bulking muscles? Because you suppose he wants to hide the fact that he secretly wants to be a woman?

    I'm not sure that even logically makes sense.
     
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  15. Polydectes

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    Absolutely didn't want it.
     
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    Well it isn't an opinion you can't transition sex.
    Great now we can **** about pronouns, and males playing on female sports teams.
    Gender doesn't mean anything.
    Gender in this context doesn't mean anything.
     
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    Comparing criminals to those working out their sexual identify???

    Seriously?? Isn't that embarrassing to you?
     
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    So that would mean you can let it go and treat people as people.
     
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  19. Polydectes

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    Narcissistic people minding their own business.
     
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    Yes, we need a lot more people minding their own business.
     
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  21. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    So they can cram it with the pronoun crap. I don't demand they say anything. the non-binaries can stop that doesn't real. They can quit involving me in their gender affirmation.

    This would help a lot.
     
  22. WillReadmore

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    I'm not so excited about being a butt hurt snowflake.

    I can't think of an easier way to signal acceptance and welcome to another human.
     
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  23. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    So you don't get the meltdowns and lectures about idiotic pronouns?
    Mind your own business then it won't matter if some random stranger accepts you or not.
     
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    Not according to god.

    ...
    Isaiah 45:7

    King James Version


    7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the Lord do all these things.
     
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  25. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I think it was already explained to you that the word "evil" in that verse could be a little bit of a mistranslation. In older English, the word "evil" often referred to unfortunate bad things that could befall you.
     

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