Differences between males and femaies

And another complaint is that men don’t satisfy them

 

Again...socialization

 

Do you think this is an exclusively bad phenomenon that ought to be changed or even reversed or are there, at least, some good to come out of it?

I think nature nurtures culture and that there are (bio)logical explanations for why wetreat boys differently from girls. Girls and boys are, afterall, different.

The reason boys and girls are given different toys is because they like different toys. It is just how things are.

 

Yep!!! I've had three women say that no one has ever taken the time before... The one young lady had never had an O.

Interestingly, when I surveyed a number of sex and relationship sites, I found that the biggest complaint from many women was that their partner wouldn't spank them hard enough LOL!!!

 

By socialization, do you mean the person in particular or the rest of us who consider those traits feminine or masculine?

 

short term gratification... typical male

 

No, she is referring to the preposterous notion of tabula rasa, the materialistic view that ignores sciene and presents human beings merely as machines consisting of parts that can be shuffled around, taken out and even replaced and that our brains are computers that can be updated on demand.

"Blank slaters" do not regard every person as a unique soul and neither do they accept that our kind is the result of a long period of evolution and adaptation. To them, we are all just a bunch of robots that can be changed to anything only if the will is strong enough.

 

Why are men more prone to short term thinking than women anyways?

It definitely holds true when it comes to love where men are very naive as seeing a photograph where a random chick can be spotted in the distance is enough to make us completely obsess over her and fall "heels over head". Whereas women tend to take it slow and contemplate for months before choosing (Yes, I do believe women choose to fall in love whereas it is more of an impulse for men) to have a crush on the dude in question...

Risk taking can easily be explained with testosterone and evolution. It is not a coincidence that it is mostly men are seen doing the most dumbtarded stuff such as put their friend in a shopping cart and push him down a waterfall.... But, why this difference in lovefalling (I doubt that's an actual word lol)?

 

A little baby boy Might enjoy playing with baby dolls but they are taken away from them because they are too girlish. Little boys would like to make their nails all different colors because it’s fun but it’s too girlish. If you notice now boys wear earrings and jewelry and flowered shirts that were never permitted in the past that was suppressed Thanks for telling me the boys and girls are different I had no idea.

 

Wow talk about over generalizations ! “Chicks” Too often fall head over heels in love after one date. Ever go to a rock concert? “Chicks” are head over heels.

 

Yes...Boys are discouraged from doing anything that is feminine while the converse is not true.

 

It is actually the other way around.
Contrary to popular belief, men are actually quicker to fall in love and much earlier at declaring it with that one three word phrase. I myself fell in love with a girl whom I knew had as much charisma a dustbin and the personality of a mosquito buzzing in your ear as you try to fall asleep on a warm summer night, yet that one picture was enough to knock me down.

Men fall in love easier (faster) than women.

 

I met and married my husband within five months and no I was not pregnant LOL
I am confused are you saying you fell in love with the photograph?

 

By whom are they taken away? When I went to kindergarten there were no such prohibitions and neither did the parents of any of my friends have such restrictions on their sons. Nor did mine.

Me and my friend actually used to steal his sister's 'Barbies' for our action figures to have something to save. I think even if boys play with "girl toys" and vice versa, they will do so in different ways.

Trust me when I say no. The only colour the average boy would ever want near his nails is that of dirt. Preferably under them.

Exactly! And girls are wearing pants and cut their hair short. No one is, as you argue above, "stopping them".

You are welcome.

 

And he was the first to say the L and the U, no?

Exactly. Men are very weak, I am telling you. As a woman, you must learn to understand this and recognise your powers.

 

But some men are just feminine. And if varying testosterone levels in the womb can affect one's athletic prowess and finger length ratio, then it can certainly affect other aspects of classic masculinity.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...ence-finger-length-ratio-and-athletic-prowess

 

I opened a thread about that a few years ago;: http://www.politicalforum.com/index...s-your-index-finger-ring-finger-ratio.500640/

 

Men can fall in love with beauty. It can be a powerful force. It can launch a thousand ships. This is especially true if he hasn't gotten laid recently.

It is argued that this isn't love. It is infatuation. I don't buy that anymore. I just think there are many kinds of love. And one for men is the love of beauty. And it doesn't matter what you call it. It can bring a man to his knees when the circumstances are right.

Not long after going ten years without sex in a bad marriage, I went to Reno and met with two very high-end escorts. When they walked in, my knees almost gave out. I was so struck by their beauty and the idea that I was about to have sex with both of them, that I almost fell down. LOL!!!!

 

well men are suppose to be more visual, which is why they watch more porn... or obsess over chick in distance. And not all women take it slow.. I've crossed paths with plenty of "oh he's so amazing" in under 24 hours, occasionally also back to "nope he sucks" soon after

People also experience love differently regardless of gender, some are insecure, others just expect you to fall in line... some are obsessive and weird... like the guy you don't know who rings you up and says "I won't let your mother come between us" ?

The very very best of "lovefalling" is when you are both completely consumed with one another, chemistry is perfect... usually the first 6 months. Ritter when you get to this point make sure you take her to a secluded island for at least a month...remember life is about making memories

On the depressing side it is also this "perfect" period most people try to re-capture when they go from one relationship to the next... love is a drug

As for shopping carts and waterfalls.. I sincerely hope you have resisted this urge

 

Growing up, I 100% agreed with this notion and to some extend I still do. It's probably controversial but I observe the changing woman with both admiration and dismay.

Nikola Tesla has some very interesting views in this field.

"Through countless generations, from the very beginning, the social subservience of women resulted naturally in the partial atrophy or at least the hereditary suspension of mental qualities which we now know the female sex to be endowed with no less than men. But the female mind has demonstrated a capacity for all the mental acquirements and achievements of men, and as generations ensue that capacity will be expanded; the average woman will be as well educated as the average man, and then better educated, for the dormant faculties of her brain will be stimulated to an activity that will be all the more intense and powerful because of centuries of repose. Women will ignore precedent and startle civilization with their progress."

Also Tesla

“I had always thought of woman,” says Mr. Tesla, “as possessing those delicate qualities of mind and soul that made her in these respects far superior to man. I had put her on a lofty pedestal, figuratively speaking, and ranked her in certain important attributes considerably higher than man. I worshiped at the feet of the creature I had raised to this height, and, like every true worshiper, I felt myself unworthy of the object of my worship.

“But all this was in the past. Now the soft-voiced gentle woman of my reverent worship has all but vanished. In her place has come the woman who thinks that her chief success in life lies in making herself as much as possible like man–in dress, voice and actions, in sports and achievements of every kind.”

 

That may have been how it was 70 years ago, but both are treated the same now. If a child is hurt a child is hurt. To tell a boy to forget his pain is asking him to cut off from his feelings.

 

What you are describing here is the desire to control and comes from living in your head rather than heart. If someone has a problem particularly an emotional one the only place they can find the answer is inside themselves and the best way to help them is to listen in a non judgemental way, maybe give them feedback - repeating what they have just said often encourages them to find more, express empathy and basically accept them till they have resolved the issue.. With practical things sometimes a person can help if they have a particular skill but even here it ought to be the person with the problem who decides what is the right answer including whether to allow you to solve the problem. Controlling generally is not accepted kindly. It suffocates whether it is a man or woman doing it.

 

Since Tesla must have said that before he died in 1943 he must have been speaking abut what happened during his lifetime. In 5 days time it will be the 99th anniversary of the ratification of women's right to vote which happened in 1920.

So he was wrong about the "soft-voiced gentle woman" because they still exist to this day. Yes, she might still be soft-voiced and gentle but she is NOT going to allow men to deny her the rights that her predecessors worked so hard to achieve.

That there are those still around who want to deny her those rights is why there are still strident voices calling them out.

In essence they will always be soft-voiced gentle women as long as they are treated fairly by men.

They understand that their rights only exist as long as they are willing to fight for them.

Stop trying to take them away the reason for being out-spoken disappears.

As far as being competitive is concerned that is another right that they have discovered that they enjoy just as much as men do. There is no reason to take that right away either.

 

It has nothing to do with control. It is a different way of viewing the world.

 

Mindless waffle from someone who doesn't seem to understand nuance.

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