White couple gives birth to black baby, women try to rationalize it away

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  1. The Sentinel

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    Child support begins at conception?
     
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    FreshAir Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    she could, that is why I say all births should have a mandatory dna test to determine paternity
     
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    DNA tests are absolutely not cheap if done at a hospital.
     
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    not talking a test while in the womb
     
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    I don't think you should question things that are none of your business. You are acting like the town gossips, whispering innuendo about an alleged 'affair'; and I have not figured out why you care about this matter in the first place.
     
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    Showing they are proud parents of a newborn baby, does not mean you should be publicly speculating about its biological make-up based on appearance, let alone how it came to be that they are proud parents of a child having that appearance. Its your conduct that is outragious and pretty low-life. Are you going to do the same thing when this child is a year old, 5 years old, 12 years old?
     
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    if the father does not get a DNA test, he will never be able to with 100% certainty the child is his

    that is, if this story is even real
     
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    Another Facebook post from this company, would not want to question his age

    "We want to wish Harold a happy birthday. Harold has been with us for 17 years is celebrating his 38th birthday with us.
    Harold started as a waiter and moved his way up to a dishwasher. HAPPY BDAY"

    [​IMG]
     
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    Fresh, you are making assumptions about a private matter, you know nothing about. yYou don't know what he does or does not know or what he was or was not informed of. And you are defining his parenthood by your standards, which may not be his.
     
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    This could be looked at as a violation of privacy. But I also wouldn’t care
     
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    Moved his way up from a waiter to a dishwasher??? Maybe this a satire site. That’s funny
     
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    never said I did know, maybe he did have a test, maybe he knows it's not his as it was a gag post, I do not know, neither do you

    "And you are defining his parenthood by your standards"

    he can still be a parent even if the child is not genetically his, can't he? just one way he will know if the child is genetically his or not
     
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    Here is their website. I think these guys definitely are trying to be provocative to get their truck stop some publicity. Really it’s a genius move.

    https://celina52.com/
     
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    agree, I think anyone the woman calls father has a right to know

    I am sure those that cheated on their man, would think it is an invasion of their privacy as they would like to keep that secret, but the father testing the baby after birth would not be imo
     
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    Yes he can. He can parent much easier if people stop gossiping about the genetics of this family and deciding who does and does not need a DNA test based on what the baby looks like.
     
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    he put himself out on the net, people gonna ask, if he had the test he could say that and end the debate - but looking like it may of been a gag post
     
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    He put himself out to celebrate his new family, not to speculate on whether his wife had an affair. He should not have to end a debate about his paternity, that he never asked for. There will always be some busybody gossips who enjoy talking about taudry innuendo about who is who's kid. That does not mean you have to be one of them.

    You are not offering a solution to him. You are promoting the conversation about him.
     
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    yep, and people gonna ask that question, best to get the test and know the answer, the parents need to know for the child to know too in case any genetic disease they need to be aware of - if he doesn't want to know, probably a reason (again... if it's not a gag)
     
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    You are online speculating about someone else's child's paternity, and its not your place or business. You don't know if it's 'best to get the test' or not, because you don't know the situation surrounding that family. Whether he wants to know or does not want to know again its not your place to speculate in a public forum. You are nothing better than the town gossip whispering innuendo about other people's lives. You are the problem here, and you have the ****ing gall to tell us what he should do, to stop people like you, from spreading nasty innuendo that hurts people's lives.
     
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    Isn't it possible that in that couple's DNA history they have some Black genes??

    Why is the first reaction to blame the parents and insinuate something that might not have happened??

    For eg: Harry and Megans kids are white....but they carry black genes. At some point it would not be surprising for their offspring or later to have a black child. So what is the big deal?? Why do racists have to verbalize their venomous toxicity about such situations??

    It is just genetics. Unfortunately people get on their high horse and start judging others ...as if it is any of their business. Why do folks jump to the most offensive assumptions before considering all the variables.??
     
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    Because its more fun to speculate about who's cheating and who is not, and who's been cuckolded, than it is to mind your own business. None of this becomes more your business because a baby born to white parents is black, than it is if a baby is born to white business is white. There is no duty by parents to get a DNA test to shut up the gossips. Or to show them the results of that test to shut them up. There is a duty not to be a gossip.
     
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    as are you, getting upset for some reason when people say they would get a dna test to be sure, seems most would think a dna test is in order

    doesn't hurt their lives, unless your saying because she may have been unfaithful, in that case I guess it could

    funny thing is, we do not even know if this is a gag post or not, no one should be getting upset over it
     
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    be no different from a mother thinking her baby might have been switch at birth and wanting a dna test for peace of mind - she can go on faith and always wonder, or get a dna test
     
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    why the fear of her getting a dna test, the man has every right to know for sure, he should not have to wonder

    and if it's not his baby, the real father has a right to know

    totally agree, this woman got a dna test and was upset with her ancestry results, not what she expected at all - it can be socking to some

     
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    No, I am not publicly speculating about this child's paternity because a child has darker skin. You are. No I am not suggesting anyone get a test so that people like you will 'end a debate' that does not even exist, but for you speculating about the paternity. You are. A DNA test is in order, if the parents want it, when the parents want it, not when YOU want it for them or when you want them to want it. All I want is for busybodies like you to figure out that some things are personal private matters that gossips like you should not be talking about. You should speculate about your DNA, not anyone elses. You should strive to be someone, that nobody else has to get a DNA test for, to shut you up with.
     
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