White couple gives birth to black baby, women try to rationalize it away

if there was any question of paternity, I would get a dna test... it's the logical thing to do

if someone else is the father and in ten years they divorce, the real father could owe 10 years back pay for child support

 

You don't know that there is a question. You don't know that anyone wants an answer. Or that getting that answer is really a good idea. You are just gossiping because there is a skin color disparity. None of your business.

 

neither do you, I am saying I would get a dna test if I was him... he doesn't have too, but it would be the logical thing to do in that situation imo

I actually support DNA testing of all newborns after birth, I think many are fathering babies that are not theirs, they have been lied too and that is sad

 

The difference between you and I, is that I am not speculating these people's private lives and you are. I am not gossiping and you are. I support a man's right to seek a test, if he wants, or not to seek a test if he doesn't want. It's up to him, not you. But you are sowing doubts here on this internet site about a child's paternity, and then you are selling your own advice 'to end the debate' on how to stop people like you from sowing doubts, that started the debate. You are a gossip, Freshair.

Its no different than if you were speculating, guessing about the life situation of a specific pregnant woman on the internet, and then suggesting she should or should not have an abortion based on your own speculation. You don't give a **** about any of this except you get to talk about this black skinned baby and the man who may be cuckolded (if its not a prank) more speculation.

 

you are speculating though, you just assume the child is theirs, others like me say I would trust but verify - there is no right answer here, we all have our opinions though

if a baby was suspect of maybe not being the alleged fathers, regardless of race, I would say get a DNA test

your right here gossiping with me then btthegreat - lol - but I am saying get a DNA test, as no need to speculate in the year 2024

 

Rubbish. What comment am I supposed to back up?
‘Colour’ is the spelling, sorry to disappoint you.
I do not seek moral high ground, I simply point out the moral swamp a lot of Americans inhabit.
Many Americans (not the only country) are obsessed about skin colour, but in a bad way in my opinion.

 

Except she did.

 

it was put up on Facebook for everyone to comment on.

oh sure they should figure it out they have to none of us can do it for them. But when it's available for me to view and comment on I have every right to comment on it.

Maybe don't put pictures like this on Facebook if you don't want people commenting on them.

agreed that man might be perfectly happy to raise that kid as his own. And if he does that is a selfless act even if it is his natural child.

If she makes a habit at a cheating on him though I don't think it's going to be a happy childhood for that kid.

 

I don't think we should be speculating on whether she does or does not 'cheat', let alone the frequency, when we don't know any facts, and were not asked to.

 

I can comment on whatever I want. You're thinking way too much about this.

 

And I have already said that you can comment on whatever you want. There is no statute on the books or rules on this forum that prohibits people from gossiping or passing innuendo about other peoples personal private lives. Not all bad, crappy things that you do or say break a 'rule', other than rules of decency. You don't seem to want to talk about whether you should gossip about other people's most personal lives. Whether its appropriate to speculate about who cheated on who and how often, who's kids are too dark skinned to be biologically fathered by which parents when all these parents want to do is celebrate that their family is larger by one beautiful healthy baby. You know that is what my postings have been about, because you read them and quoted it.

I stipulate once again that you can write whatever filth or slime you choose, about whatever people you want to. Hope we have that clear now.

 

Didn't need your permission