What is wrong with "slut shaming"?

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  1. tealwings

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    Doctors ask if you are sexually active for medical reasons. They also educate their patients. The prevention and treatment of sexually transmitted disease would include asking those types of questions.
    Good medical care can be personal but hopefully not judgmental.
     
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    And I am in favor of the realistic recognition of racial differences and the suppression of hedonism.
     
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    It also serves to make the shamed feel worse about themselves and encourages bystanders to avoid the fate of the shamed.
     
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    Shaming doesnt work on drug addicts, alcoholics, or the mentally ill. It would probably work on the singles mothers, older people priced out of places and those who through no fault of their own started tumbling downward. Oh wait! Im sure you could find a bad relationship choice or career path to shame. 8)
    Consequences not shaming...they are arent the same.
     
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    in other words..you support racism and think you have the right to dictate with whom and when women can have sex.

    Oh...
     
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    In what way? Indeed, it's the only way any religion "makes sense". Some nut babbles and gets followers instead of keepers. Again, how did you think religion came about anyway?

    Christianity was founded as a sect of Judaism, but is different enough that it's a complete rethinking
     
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    people wouldn't have done that just because.
     
  8. Sanskrit

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    The above is like saying that doctors shouldn't ask morbidly obese about their eating habits, alcoholics about how much they drink, opioid addicts how many pills they take.

    Absurd.
     
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    Yep, I get that but they shouldn’t be asking how many sex partners anyone has had.
     
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    Everyone is repulsed by sluts. They deserve and get no respect. But it’s unnecessary to confront them face to face.
     
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    Obviously everyone isn’t repulsed by sluts.
     
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    Freaks are not repulsed.
     
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    It is this kind of thinking that gives conservatives their conformist appearance.
     
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    What is wrong with having sensual pleasure? What is wrong with maximum happiness as the ultimate goal in life?
     
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    Youre mistaken if you think that only freaks are interested in sluts, unless freaks are men with working sexual apparatus.
     
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    Nah, the bystanders will laugh at the old fart shaming someone. Just so that shamer can feel better about themselves.
     
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    Those being repulsed are jealous because they can't get any of that.
    As I said, the shamers only do so to make themselves feel better about themselves.
    There is no other reason.
     
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    Seems to boil down to subscribing to / ascribing a ubiquitous criterion of morality; & that just isn't the way of the world - sorry... Moral relativism is the way of things; so it's rather preposterous to impose a personally held moral rubric upon an effusively diverse populace. Not to mention, that the latter (moral relativism) is championed by most aspects of our mainstream.
     
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    Sure. I definitely want a woman who has had 50 men before me. That’s my dream girl.
     
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    Now be kind everyone, I’m just citing science here.
    There is a nearly linear correlation between increased promiscuity and increased substance dependency.

    Almost every study of “hookup” sexual behavior has found increased levels of anxiety, low self esteem, and depression after the casual sexual encounter.

    Flame suit on....
     
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    Ever consider the fact that 'it's not all about U or I'? Perhaps that woman would likewise be rebuffed by your judgmental moral calculus - just saying, to ea. their own, tis the spice of life.

    I was just having a conversation earlier today about Calvinism vs. Arminianism, lol. We ultimately were created to have free choice while we draw breath here on this earth - after that... (another forum to discuss perhaps) :)
     
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    My opinion of a woman doesn’t increase with the number of men she’s been with.
     
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    How about the "moral rubric" of "No one should be forced to pay taxes that are spent on the rampant social ills and poor life choices of promiscuity culture while enriching and enlarging government?"
     
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    That is you personally.
    Others are jealous they can't have any.
    If one shames another, it's because they are jealous or insecure of themselves.

    One can not want a promiscuous person without shaming. If one is confident in themselves.
     
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    Interesting, does that apply to all the direct and indirect shaming that has been posted to this thread too?
     
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