Dating Advice for my son

Tell him to model for some pics put them on a calendar along with his email address, give away calendars and whoever calls first date her...Because there is no sure fire way to meet the right one it happens in the best and worst places along with the best and worst of timing...

 

I was an actor so I was used to getting turned down along with the chicks turning me down...

 

I was a heavy metal singer who was never turned down (Okay a couple big gigs) until I burned out on the whole backstabbing scene and gave up the drug induced pseudo happiness. Dating was no fun and marriage the first couple times was an eye opening learning experience. It has taken a while and much experience (good and bad) to slightly figure out these strange creatures and how to feed thgem without losing parts.

 

Haha, I understand the gym can be a good place to meet. But the women probably have their shields up as well. I always come back to the idea that most women looking for relationships are probably online now.

I knew one guy who met women at the gym. He would watch for the cute, chunky ones who worked hard. Buddy up before they get hot and regain their confidence. Then they think of you as the guy who was interested before they lost weight. LOL! SUCH a SCAMMER. I don't work that way but I had to laugh.

 

It doesnt matter where you go. Its all about being able to entertain with conversation. If you can do that, you can find chicks at the gas station, grocery, anywhere.

If you can't entertain them, theres nothing to be done. Mail order bride maybe...

 

But still, the more women you meet, the more likely you are to find women you are fundamentally compatible with. You can spend a lot of time in gas stations, night clubs, bars, and grocery stores, before you can meet as many women as you can meet in a matter of hours, online.

I met my first fiancee while getting gas. She was really cute. So after talking for a few minutes, I asked her out before she finished filling her car. And no doubt about it, some of my most rewarding experiences resulted from simply being fearless and bold. The way I found the greatest love of my life, my first sugar baby, was by randomly offering to take her on a trip around the world. I didn't even know her. What shocked me was when she said, OKAY! I was about to take a contract that would have me travelling for a couple of years. So I just threw it out on a whim. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever met; and only 21 at the time.

 

Are you sure he’s straight? Don’t want to frighten you but - - - - - - - - - - -

 

I get the impression, maybe I'm wrong, that gay guys can get laid a lot easier than straight guys. For that upcoming concert for which he has a spare ticket? He'd just bring a dude. Nope. I'm pretty certain he faces the travails of a straight guy. Pathetic creatures are we. Thanks for the thought though.

 

Perhaps incorporating certain aspects of the "Gay Persona" that females are drawn to, such as the happy, confident and BFF concepts would be of benefit. I have found these to be quite important when a woman becomes a friend as well as a lover. This seems to be the secret to long term coupling....Friends first and love making "Best Friends".

 

It can and even should be friends first. I certainly was with my wife. The tough part is not getting friend zoned. One has to recognize whether there is ever going to be chemistry there before trying to move onto anything beyond being friends.

 

This is where the kiss comes in....a kiss is not sexual per se but can tell a man volumes.

 

Church.

 

My buddy was always warning me about getting to be friends. He would always say, "you don't want to be her gay friend". I immediately knew what he meant. Once a woman sees you as a friend, it may take a long time for her to transition to the idea of a mate. And most women don't have sex with friends.

 

Yes, he should go to church to get laid.

 

There is another element in play: I have been told many times by both young men and women that today, "it is all about moving on". I've talked with quite a few women who want nothing to do with marriage. As one young lady put it when I asked if she ever plans to marry: "My parents are divorced. My grandparents are all divorced. And they all hate each other! Why would I want to get married?

The guys are allegedly the worst, where there are actually websites that teach you how to lie to and use women to get laid. But women too not only look at the statistics, but also YouTube videos of women giving birth. NO WAY AM I DOING THAT TO MY BODY!!!, they often say. LOL! I wonder how many women will choose not to get pregnant simply because they can watch childbirth in all of its glory.

The point is, the rules are changing. And what is he expecting; a possible wife, or just something long term? A lot of women may want neither. That's another reason why men like me are dating women in their 20s. If they don't plan to marry, my age doesn't matter as much. We don't have a real future. So as long as it works today, that's all that matters.

 

yeah, Condoms is a recommendation too, like that one one that told the rich guy she was on the pill, turned out to be a fertility pill, can't remember the actors name right now

and of course for online dating, watch for the players just looking for easy prey....

 

All true but watch out for the 20ish girls that may be looking for more. At your age you may be financially established, have your own place, maybe ready for something serious. Could be a good thing.

 

I would have married my first sugar baby in a heartbeat. I was MADLY in love - more than I thought possible by an order of magnitude. I really didn't believe that love like that exists. The truth is, I'm hoping to find a love like that again. And like with my first, I'll take it on any terms that I can get it. If I can only have her for a time, so be it. But if she is willing and I love her like my first, I'm all over it.

 

I was with my first SB for three years - the three best years of my life by far. Every moment that I spent with her was among the best moments in my life. It was an amazing experience.

Good thing she was a good girl. At one point I realized that there wasn't anything that I wouldn't be willing to do for her. And I mean ANYTHING. I was completely helpless. Freaking amazing!!!

 

I advise making lots of friends an actual social environments outside of work. Join pool tournaments or swimmers clubs or bowling league camping groups whatever. I would advise against wasting time on social media you cannot meet people there. You meet their best opinion of themselves. That includes online dating.

Also seek people from outside the country Philippines Indonesia Brazil, the Balkan region. Women from those places have different attitudes toward relationships then women in the United States generally speaking.

 

If he's not ready for marriage, he's not ready for sex either.

 

That's not what he's looking for. He's looking for a relationship.

 

Accepting dating advice from someone who apparently uses bondage and uses women(girls) as sex toys in adventurous imaginative online fantasy novella may not be the best way to approach relationships or dating.

 

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