FOX anchor! Girls who get FRAT rapes, "What are boys supposed to do?"

We all know many guys will take an advantage of a situation if given the chance. That isn't excusing them or making excuses for them. But damn it, women have to also take responsibility for their own actions. You don't put yourself in a situation where you know there is a good chance you can be sexually assaulted. We all to often want to put all the blame on others for what happens to us, without taking any responsibility for our own actions. I got thrown in jail, I'm going to kill that judge. I lost my job for being late to much, the damn boss was out to get me. I got sexually molested in a man's Frat House where I went in dressed to kill and drunker than a skunk and passed out. Those filthy perverts

 

Seems like Kirsten Powers, a Democrat seems to agree with this. Shall we only put all the blame on the men?

 

Did I ever say it was all her fault? Nope.

 

iT wAS SaiD oN foX thoughhhhh!!!!!!! Bush and Cheney damnit! Abortion!?!? RAcist!!?!>!

I would expect something like the above as a response.. No one is supposed to see that Powers agreed I'm sure the author is being reprimanded for leaving that in.

 

Nor is that what I claimed.

 

I'm sure if this was on MSNBC, they would show it as another War on Women. Love how the Left only looks at one part of every problem.

 

Unfortunately, Mr. Cooper.....you're right.

Women are not stupid. We know exactly what we look like when we stand in front of a full-length mirror. When a woman puts on clothes that you described, her appearance screams 'look how sexy i am!' and she knows it. That's why she put the outfit on......

I was a strict mom when it came to my 2 lovely teenage daughters. They were not allowed to wear skin-tight clothes w/showing cleavage down to their midriff and hem line up to the crotch, short shorts cut up into their buttocks......that didn't happen. And I talked to them about how clothes/appearance is important and the good or bad impression they're giving others besides the teen guys w/raging hormones. They learned and grew into womanhood dressing w/good taste and one now has a 14 yr old daughter who's dressed the same way her mother was taught..... just pretty, stylish teenage clothes.

Clothes is a personal responsibility and understanding how they're advertising themselves to the public that teen girls should be taught by their mothers - or even dads, but as we can see - many are not.

I had a brother who was an Air Force pilot, stationed all over and never forgot what he said one time about the women he met.... "Some of them don't leave anything for a guy's imagination".... I was a teenager and always remembered his words....

 

Best. Answer. Today!

 

Wtfs? I dont care if shes dressed like a "skank" or a nun....unless she can articulate a yes or an ok then its no deal. The only thing you should do to someone passed out is turn them in their side so they dont vomit and die.....male or female.

 

What? There should NEVER be a situation where there would be a 'good chance' to be sexually assaulted.

 

When you go to a party and you BOTH get drunk, it's not rape. It's two stupid, drunk people doing something they probably wouldn't do sober. Neither is more to blame than the other.

Women can take advantage of men, too, doncha know.

 

Nor robbed. Nor extorted. Nor punched. You get the idea. Reality is not safe.

 

What a damn shame women are pretty much unsafe anywhere they go and it's their fault for putting themselves there.

 

They are no less safe in any situation than a man. What a chauvinist thing to say.

 

"I love the fact that the Rightwingers who are saying women who put themselves in these situations are ultimately responsible for what happens to them are probably the same peoe who deny the US is at all culpable for its own blowback."

Yeah, you kind of did when you said that. If the US is responsible for something like 9/11..."blowback"...a chick getting wasted and passing out in a strange location with a bunch of drunk horney guys, is culpable if rape occurs.

But you're partly right. The US people were far too weak and naive when we allowed crazy people to hijack planes with box cutters. We were too ignorant to think it could happen, so yeah, they let it happen. They sat back and LET IT HAPPEN. At least some fought back. It won't happen again though. Anyone who tries to hijack a U.S. plane will be torn literally limb from limb and eviscerated with whatever implement they snuck on board, next time.

 

The problem with feminists is they believe a woman should be able to declare a consensual act as rape just by changing her mind the next day. A drunk horny girl comes onto a guy, they have sex. Next morning she is ashamed and says she was too drunk to consent. He gets hit with a rape charge. It's BS.

 

This is the hypocrisy of modern feminism

 

It was Marine1 that posted: "But damn it, women have to also take responsibility for their own actions. You don't put yourself in a situation where you know there is a good chance you can be sexually assaulted." How does a woman put herself into a situation in which she is sexually assaulted? I don't think any woman asks for such a thing or walks into a situation thinking "oh, I could get sexually assaulted here". My point is you and Marine1 are saying that women aren't safe anywhere and they should know wherever they go they are walking into a situation where they could be sexually assaulted, and THEY need to take responsibility for that. It's a most absurd opinion.

 

I never said women aren't safe anywhere. But we all know how men's hormones are. Under normal circumstances a man can keep them under control. But when you throw in drugs or alcohol and a woman that is dressed provocative, flirty and drunk, passing out in a man's frat, she is only asking for trouble. It's really not that hard to understand. It's like crossing a street at a cross walk. 99% of the time you won't have trouble crossing. But cross it in the middle of the block at night, your putting your self in danger of being hit. You have to take some responsibility for your actions. You don't want to hold her responsible for anything.

 

So women are putting themselves in circumstances because boys can’t control their hormones? Women need to take responsibility for being raped because the boy couldn’t control his impulses?

Sorry, passing out drunk is never an invite for rape. If a women passes out and gets raped, she should NOT have to take responsibility for the rape. Never should a woman feel in danger at a party just because there’s alcohol and raging hormones. I cannot hold a women responsible for passing out and believing that’s an invite to be raped.

 

If it were only that your right. But you don't know how she dressed, how much she flirted or anything else. You seem to think a woman can come in dressed any way she wants, acting any way she wants, drunk as a skunk and then passes out and then if something happens, she should never be held responsible for her actions. Well it just doesn't always work that way. For every action there is a reaction.

 

How she dresses or behaves is still not an invite to be raped. Humans have this unique quality to us, it's called communication. She may be communicating some suggestive things, but until she says "let's do it", she is never asking for it through suggestive behavior.

We’re not going to agree.

 

If a female is old enuf to go to a frat party - or any party for that matter - then she's old enuf to be responsible for her own behavior and choices.... like how SHE decides to dress, how much SHE decides to drink, who's lap SHE decides to throw herself into.... are you saying that females of any age are brainless little innocents who don't have a clue about what they're doing or how they look in their 'sexy' little outfit?

You're absolutely right - passing out drunk is NEVER an invite for sex w/o consent, but let's face the facts here..... chivalry died eons ago.

If a female - teen or woman, doesn't matter - decides to put herself in a vulnerable, defenseless position by drinking herself into oblivion w/a bunch of horny males around, even IF she's dressed like a nun.... you better believe there will be at least one male who will take advantage of her....... call it the nature of the beast. Many are out there. It's going to happen and parents need to wake up and teach their daughters about this very ugly part of life.......

In cases like this, you could say 'when you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences'.... and it's damn sad and heart-breaking that the consequences has to be her being raped.

 

Although I think Fox stinks, girls who go to frat parties and get drunk might as well go in with their clothes off. They WANT to get laid and most of them do. They sometimes get upset when it isn't the guy they were planning on.

 

Well let's say the guy gets rolled and has the crap beat out of him and yes even sodomized.

The next morning would you be giving him prudent advice to take some responsibility for himself and not get drunk and pass out in the park or would you console him telling him it's not his fault and go out and do it again next weekend?